How to Tap Into Divine Guidance to Find Your Soulmate

The desire to finding one's soulmate can become a transformational journey, it's a matter of having the right perspective. Today's dating world can easily take us away from that perspective. To get back on the right track, we need to understand; a relationship's purpose, what a journey is about, how we get guidance, how to interpret the messages and how we move me forward.

Side Effects of Online Dating
With online dating being on the rise, it has taken a lot of the mystery and excitement out of dating because it is too easy. We then make lists based on judgments on what we think we want to screen people.



Much of what we could be looking for could also be on the defense to avoid the pain from the side effects of the online dating system. Because there are so many choices, we dismiss each other like numbers, which creates a great disconnect.

Online dating can be useful for some who genuinely have a hard time meeting people but within moderation. Its overuse can become a distraction to finding one's soulmate. So let's refresh our memories on how to use our divine guidance to understand what our hearts really want, not what the ego wants.

The Purpose of a Relationship

The purpose of a relationship and that of a soulmate relationship is to teach us how to love more fully. To get there, we have lessons to learn, habits and beliefs that we need to let go of.

Love is something that should automatically flow through us when we are feeling pure. Therefore what we need to focus on is letting go of blockages and remembering our pure state. This is very important to be clear with because our egos want to protect us from our blockages.

The whole process is far easier when we are able to surrender to all of it. This is what divine guidance will take us through as we ultimately want to realign ourselves with emotional balance. The closer we are to reaching this, the closer we are to attracting our soulmate whom can show up at any time.

Understanding the Journey

A journey to finding our soulmate is a journey that starts from within. The emotions of finding the right person are very intense, therefore we need to have achieved the right emotional balance to be able to handle them.

It is not all easy like a fairy tale, they will challenge us to learn the big lessons we have to learn and we have to be ready to handle that. That's also a sign that we met the right person. They are there to show us the path to surrender our ego, as that's how true love will come out.

It's all part of the divine plan. This is why the journey is all about preparing ourselves emotionally. The more we ignore this, the more painful experiences we may have to go through to realize this truth. However, with the right vision, the path will be very exciting, fulfilling and joyful!

Recognizing Divine Guidance

Divine guidance comes in the form of meaningful experiences, signs, mysterious coincidences and synchronicity all with the purpose of showing us what we need to learn. We will develop our intuition as we learn to read the messages.

Most of the battle is being open to them, because we may only be meant to understand their meanings later as we experience other events to connect the dots. They can come in the form of meeting people with important similarities to make sure we pay attention to engaging with others who carry them as well. We could be thinking about something when it miraculously shows up in front of us. We can get certain feelings that lead us somewhere for a reason. There are many ways in which we can be intuitive about guidance.

Following Divine Messages

The messages may even be meant to lead to us to pain, rejection or unpleasant confrontations. When they do, it is important to allow the feelings to flow through without blocking them. These feelings will remind us of the baggage we need to let go of. Nothing to take personally, just conditioning that we've been dragging around for too long.

We all have baggage, it's part of life, they are meant to make us appreciate happiness when we rise from them. We also get great lessons out of them. Part of the journey is to learn how to heal so we fear less and less in order to be open to love.

The messages can also tell us to let go of the list of what we are looking for in our potential soulmate. As we want things to be easy we could want a quality that facilitates the well-being of one of our own, however, this may be pushing against the divine plan.

Many of our qualities will flourish when they are challenged, not necessarily when they will be agreed with. We naturally like to stay in comfort zones so it could be harmful to our growth to get all the things on "our list".

It is also important not to turn this journey into an intense analytical process, that will shut off our intuition and we may read things that are not yet meant to be read. The other part of it is learning to trust that the right experiences will come instead of forcing them.

Putting the Lessons into Action

Trusting ourselves to be present in the moment versus making sure that we take all the right actions to make things happen. We all know trying too hard, or searching too hard leads to failure. Therefore in our inward journey, it is important to let go of what causes us to want to control. From that, we will find other things that block us from our emotional balance.

There's an easy way to turn struggle into joy when we re-align ourselves with what love is meant to do for us. As much as I encourage using life experiences to meet people, online dating can probably be helpful when used with intuition and balance.